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If there was a reason why people would not get married, the massive headache from digging through the rack after rack of wedding dresses would be it. Add to it weird uncles stationed outside otherwise decent-looking bridal stores and way too many fluorescent lights in bridal stores in a row and you can somewhat feel the headache. Somewhat…..

Whatever happened to the wedding dress passed down from your mum. BUT! That would mean that your mum had actually bought her wedding dress (some of the bridal store ppl gave us looks like we were barking mad when we asked about buying a wedding dress). Whatever happened to simple garden weddings (wait, I guess global warming…. plus bugs plus rain plus plus….). Whatever happened to it’s about two of us (you cannot imagine how many in-laws we saw). Whatever happened to “the bride will look ravishing in dress here” (it’s a lie, it’s a lie….)

Some dresses were pretty, some I wouldn’t even dream of forcing my worst enemy to wear (=_=). We made Song try on some of the dresses (Nolly, pls say thanks to my sample model, ms song. wahahha) and Koky intro-ed us in almost every store …” we’re all not the brides” and some of the faces when she said that was hilarious. Most of the people were quite impressed that a bride’s mum and her friends (bride’s that is) would troop into store after store to look for a bride’s dress in her absence (AHEM….), I was very impressed by our resilience and especially Koky’s determination to locate dresses (think digging into a row of at least 50 dresses one by one, and these dresses were in a protective shroud) that would suit the image of the ‘perfect dress’ we had in mind…..

You know how girls get all “I also want to get married!!!” when they go to bridal shops. I just wanted to barf after my headache started. I think I’m obviously not one of those girls…. Ok I should call them boutiques…. It’s amazing how the prices differ and how people sell their services. It’s also amazing how camp some of the males are. The white VW parked outside one of the boutiques, waiting for flowers to be tied on the bonnet was also amazing….

Interesting day, am glad we made some progress. Some parts were quite fun too….

* nolly, end of report*

Went to church for watchnight service…..

Met aunty in a kinda awkward moment, i.e. the “turn around and say XXXX to your neighbour!”. Started talking, (I actually think I have a knack for talking to aunties) and she was telling me about things that she was thankful for in 2009. She met a lady who occupied the hospital bed opposite that of her sister’s. Started talking to her, progressed to talking about faith and God. The lady accepted Jesus. 3 days later she passed on.

Have many things to be thankful for in 2009. Started with YD group, which I actually felt quite a bit of trepidation about but think the girls have taken to me quite well. Hope to get them thinking more about their faith and their lives. Have actually been blessed with pretty nice colleagues for the past year. Baby Taby has been a bundle of joy accompanied with the ability to slime everything….ewwww….. Am very thankful to hear that Berryl’s been thinking about God, seeing the fruit of prayers spanning 2 years :) . Got to travel, HK, Penang, London, Croatia, Serbia, Bosnia. PLUS! Nolly’s getting hitched!

Disappointments, trials aplenty. But so much more to give thanks for.

Blessed 2010 everyone! May the Lord be near to you in the coming year!

For granted

Song came back from HK for a while. the best thing, she’s been in and out of the office and is not on leave either. She doesn’t even work here!!

Was really nice to meet up with the girls today, and trying to talk above the din that is 3 other excited girls trying to give their 2 cents worth. We stressed nolly loads with our long list of things that need to be done (we wrote on an official envelope, which now looks like preserved vegetable after having swirled in the mess in my bag) for her wedding. Discussed what could be done on her hen night/ nights and had great laughs.

I think I take my friends for granted sometimes, that they’ll listen, that they’ll most certainly be there whatever, whenever. I take getting enough sleep for granted as well. I have so much freedom to do stuff that perhaps I take that liberty as a given. Health as well, something I’ve not given thanks for a while now, yet something that A has showed me, without health, it’s hard doing everything else…..

At our neighbourhood kopitiam, Taby made a series of faces, all for me :)

Wadcha looking at… *glare glare*

*BEAM!*

I’m in the midst of growing out my top teeth….

Books are yummy….. especially if they have chewy bits….

I like my new dress plus stripey socks!~

My new dress!!!

Yay, playing with Taby makes me very happy. She’s so cute and now she responds to sounds. I’d like to think that she recognises me but I’m not sure. Still, made my day to play with her for a while on Sat!

Unapologetic

I was on my way home a couple of days ago when I suddenly remembered a promise I made to myself when I was a kid. I haven’t really kept it properly…. ” Live unapologetically”. I don’t know what stirred me to come up with such a “mission statement” and quite a pompous one at that. I guess it could swing either way. Do what I want, ignoring everyone else or do something everyone agrees with.

In some senses, yes I’ve made decisions like switching from school to school but hardly apologetically. I’ve travelled to countries with reasons like ” I want to see that bridge”.

I think I’ve had other visions of how I’d live when I’m older. I don’t think what I’m doing now coincides with any vision.

Prayer about the future is required….

 

Heal Over

It isn’t very difficult to see why
You are the way you are
Doesn’t take a genius to realise
That sometimes life is hard
It’s gonna take time
But you’ll just have to wait
You’re gonna be fine
But in the meantime

Come over here lady
Let me wipe your tears away
Come a little nearer baby
Coz you’ll heal over
Heal over
Heal over someday

And I don’t wanna hear you tell yourself
That these feelings are in the past
No it doesn’t mean they’re off the shelf
Because pain’s built to last
Everybody sails alone
Oh but we can travel side by side
Even if you fail
You know that no one really minds

Come over here lady
Let me wipe your tears away
Come a little nearer baby
Coz you’ll heal over
Heal over
Heal over someday

Don’t hold on but don’t let go
I know it’s so hard
You’ve got to try to trust yourself
I know it’s so hard, so hard

Come over here lady
Let me wipe your tears away
Come a little nearer baby
Coz you’ll heal over
Heal over
Heal over someday

Yeah you’re gonna heal over

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Taby!

I’m meant to write about my travelling but I am so lazy and tired.

So I shall write about Taby!

She’s my new favourite friend. haha, other friends would like to say obsession. I don’t actually see her that often but she makes me laugh when I see her.

Her hair’s growing out a bit now, so that’s good. At some point when there is more, I’ll be able to get her some funky monkey hairclips a la the many I had when I was a kid.

She’s slightly narcissistic, and finds great joy in looking at her own reflection. She literally chuckles and giggles!

She’s a snorer, I have no idea why….

I think her eyes were bigger than mine when I was younger…S

She  frowns a lot. like this =_=

She can’t quite crawl yet

Very very good at squirming and kicking me when she is fussing.

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I’ve been back to work for 2.5 days and feel like I want to pass out. Literally, woke up this morning feeling feverish, wondered if I was allergic to the concept of work. Got back on Tuesday night after a ten hour flight, 2 hour stopover in BKK, 2 hours more on the plane (I still cannot get over the fact that I did not have my own in-flight entertainment screen, yes it was a dodgy looking screen on the wall in front of the middle seats of the plane). I lugged a 23kg suitcase, one 50litre backpack, one Harrods plastic bag, another crumpler bag (and you know you’re only allowed 1 handcarry, whahaha) from nolly’s place, down to the tube station, changed trains, got to the airport. I got to the airport in one piece plus one bruise on my ankle (23kg suitcase swung against my ankle), praying that I would get through the whole checking in without having to pay (I didn’t pay!). So I’m back with a lot of bed bug bites (I have no idea from where), still jetlagged, getting a throat infection but with plenty of photos and stories to tell (whoever wants to listen).

Day 1:

I got into London at night and waited in the terribly long queue that was for entry into the UK (think many many international students plus parents plus dependents waiting to gain entry, ok fine that was the queue beside me), waited almost 45 mins before I got to the front of the queue. Got asked a few questions and got my passport stamped and yippee! I was back in the UK!

I didn’t quite believe I was back in London, didn’t quite believe that I was buying coffee in Heathrow, didn’t quite believe that Nolly and WY were at the back of the same queue I was in, didn’t quite believe that the cold air I was feeling was not air-conditioning. Of course I was excited to be back!

Took a taxi to their place (a nice house with a NICE kitchen and nice sized rooms for everyone plus a garden plus a living room/visitors’ bedroom plus 2 TOILETS!) and felt right at home, except it was cold. Saw Berryl again which was great.

Collapsed into bed and a few hours later dragged myself out of bed to get to the airport to catch my flight to budapest. Got to budapest after a terribly turbulent flight and hopped on the bus towards the train station ( got a bit lost trying to get to the bus from the subway after trying to decipher what the people at the subway station were saying in Hungarian). Managed to get a ticket on an overnight train from Budapest to Belgrade after a long time of waiting. Waiting proved interested though, spoke with a Swedish guy (we were rolling our eyes at how long the person at the counter took) about travelling and stuff and he pulled out some Serbian money and said take it (only 20 Serb dinar larh) and have a good time travelling. Left my bag with this nice old lady at the Budapest railway station’s luggage deposit office and went off to explore Budapest. It really is pretty, reminded me a little of Florence as well, walked till I was certain my legs were going to drop off then got back to the train station pretty late. Not before some dinner and postcard writing…..

Train station at night, ALONE is quite creepy. Especially if you have an old man in a suit plus hat sitting still staring at the departures screen without twitching a muscle, for a very very long time. I was too tired and my feet too sore to bother so I got comfortable and waited for the train.

Got onto the train after my tourist photo with the words “BEOGRAD” in front of the train and looked around for a seat. Think Harry Potter train (the inside I mean) and found no cabin free and saw one that had a chinese looking guy in it. Figured i could take the other seat and stretch out for some sleep (plus he looked relatively harmless) and so asked if I could join him. So I met Jason, Canadian, from Trinidad, doesn’t speak a word of Chinese. Got to talking about travelling and life. Sleeping in the train was a pain. Firstly cos the stupid heaters (I am extremely grateful for heating in cold cold places) got overheated and my seat got super warm/hot in the night then the stupid window wouldnt stay open. so there I am tossing and turning and in the seat across me he is sleeping soundly =_=. When I finally get around to sleeping, the border guards come on the train and stare at my passport for the longest time. I was grumpy and tired and muttered, ” don’t need a visa”, passport got stared at for an even longer time before the guard decided that this sleepy looking bespectacled girl didn’t pose a threat and stamped on my passport (YESS!!!!!, stamp from Serbia, ok cheap thrill but THRILL!). They stared at Jason’s passport for a long time too before stamping it. We both spent a good 5 minutes staring at the fresh stamps in our passport before passing out again.

Many many stops, many many toilet trips, many many attempts at prying the window permanently open later, we got to Belgrade! I said we cos we decided we would go around and meet after we both checked into our individual hostels. One hour later (i.e. the time we were supposed to meet back at the train station), I finally got to my hostel. 1 hour because people didn’t understand me, no one knew the street, I cannot read Cyrillic road signs, plus got followed by a dog =_=”’. Quick shower and a cabride down to the train station (Driver had a chat with me about Singapore, told me about his pilot friend who’s now in sg, asked me not to take another cab in Belgrade–> aww so sweet). ok tired. will try and review this tomorrow.

The mad traveller

I mentioned a dry spell, no travelling for almost 9 months straight and I’ve been for 2 trips. With different bunches of people.

Went to Hong Kong for about 4 days. It was all about shopping and eating and shopping and eating, a la the tourism advertisements of Hong Kong. It was great meeting friends as well, friends from uni that I haven’t seen for almost a year. Time spent was way too short though. Went to the tourist places like the Peak and walked through more markets than I actually cared for. I loved that I could get to walk all day, tried loads of local fare and yet didn’t have to plan at all, except for whinging the night before about things I wanted to do. Which we did, i.e. tram to the Peak and sitting on the Ferry (twice).

Many firsts in the trip as well. First time going into an LV store, the next day, first time queuing to get into an LV store. First time travelling with colleagues. First time not planning/ no input for the trip. First time travelling on SQ, airbus 380 WOOT! (and I had tremendous leg room, there was no seat in front of me!). First time in Hong Kong.

Few days after  I got back it was packing for Penang. Expected Penang trip to be really chill. Which it was, except for my sleep deprivation due to a certain thermostat that I was sure was there for show, and some coughing and snoring by my room mate  =_=.

Met up with Ronald MacDonald as well, which was nice as well as his girlfriend who was sweet.

Penang’s so very much a tourist backpacker’s destination. Enough to see to satisfy the alternate culture-hungry backpacker and chill enough for the tired out traveller. Of course this time I didn’t do the rough it out version (ahem due to travelling companions), stayed the first night at a brilliant place (UNESCO World Heritage Site lehhhh) with an absolutely camp hostel person (sharp tongue to boot). 2nd and 3rd nights were spent at this Boutique Hotel, which was pretty much the most expensive looking place I’ve stayed in, in my last 4 years of travelling.

The people I travelled  with were so vastly different, one similarity, everyone’s a photoqueen. The amount  of time spent preening before the photo’s taken and the scrambling to delete an “unsightly” photo just cos they didn’t look 100% is hilarious. A lot of laughter, which is really what I needed after a long long dry spell of no travelling. Travelling can really make or break friendships and it was refreshing travelling with people who took care of me (on average at least 8 years older than me). Of course it was also in places where language was not much of an issue and were Asian countries. Wouldn’t have done anything different in any of the trips, I think I gained a few insights to people I can now really call friends.

So, in a few days I’m going to spend one night with the girls on Sentosa, and a few days after that I’m headed to Europe for my final trip for the year (fingers crossed it’s not).

Did I mention that I’m going to be extremely broke after all these trips…..

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